About US

In teaching school, coaching, training in both the auto and construction business, we, my wife and I, decided to alter direction. Now, we share our passion by helping others in mentoring and volunteering. The Blessings this life has given us has allowed me to stay alive. Through drug use from college throughout many years, through being fully buried in work, God has shown mercy to allow clarity in my life. Blessed with an understanding and strong wife, we have hit our stride though the journey has been rough at times. After being told I needed a 5-way cardiac bypass within 24 hrs, then losing large amounts of blood to Cameron Ulcers, and now a shoulder surgery that went totally sideways, God has kept us on track. He has blessed us and shown us ways through visions and by putting opportunities for growth directly in our path. Read thru this site for comprehension, for ways to open conversations with those you hold dear. Help yourself and others open up  to the possibilities of communication, and find a solid track to success where none seems probable.

Our approach has strength in communication, in consultative conversation building, and introspection (looking at yourself in the mirror) by providing alternative mental pathways to gain a completely different perspective. (If the same solutions have been repeatedly failing, perhaps a different approach is in order). 

We have seen the current lack of critical thinking and deductive reasoning skills being taught. We watch how that invites problems and trouble into our lives.  This is  one of our types of communication exercises.  This website is meant to help identify opened and closed doors (and what we did to open or close those doors). *Do you have to get bit by a rattlesnake to understand that hearing it was enough of a warning?

 God will never present us a task or situation that we can't handle. We may need to change our approach or attitude for the answer, however.  This site is meant to stir discussions and introspection, or, ways of looking at ourselves in the mirror and being critical on how we're doing. Working through discussion topics and exercises, we try to show ways to develop forward thinking and looking ahead to help avoid obvious  (and some not-so obvious) pitfalls and open our eyes to new or unforeseen opportunities. Here we try to present real conversation structure to help management, parents, and counselors in this process. 

Our pledge to open eyes to new possibilities, to new potential futures, develop thoughtful pathways to learn, recognize and position our mentee's to be of service. We also would like to aid to those who may shine light in the dark corners of those affected lives where darkness dwells. 

God is a forgiving God. But, I think He likes to see progress.

Mentorship and planting mental seeds are key. Some call these 'triggers. Some may simply say we are making those seeking answers aware of other doors they haven't been looking for or seeing. If it's questions from young adults as to 'Why does this keep happening to me",  If it's working at discussions involving drugs, alcohol, sex,  porn, gambling, or purely lack of motivation, we wish to lend our experience and blessings to those situations.  We have received great lessons, both through life experience (some quite costly) and through our own mentors. Our hope is that you find helpful ways to communicate, to listen, and to help direct new, expanded answers to issues and situations you or loved ones are currently working through. If you are smiling or nodding your head, you understand some of your past actions and thinking hasn't worked out as planned.

Through this process you may recreate and refine your plan for success, both in the long term, and, the short term. We didn’t get there alone, and neither will you. 

GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

I hope you find this site as helpful as I have in writing it.